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Everything I learned planning one, in the order you'll actually need it.

The must-haves

Not a generic shopping list. This is what we actually used, photographed at the real thing.

  • The bride holding a cutout of the groom’s face at a winery

    Custom face cutouts

    The highest-return item of the whole weekend. In every single photo. Order these first; anything custom has the longest lead time.

  • The bride with a blow-up doll wearing the groom’s face at sunset

    A blow-up doll

    Tape the groom’s face to it. Got the biggest laugh of the weekend, and cost almost nothing.

  • Flat-lay of a bride hat, sweatshirt, tank, pyjamas and sequin bag

    Matching pyjamas & a bride bag

    $12.94 each. Set it out on the bed before she arrives and photograph it before anyone touches it.

  • A champagne tower built from plastic coupes tied with yellow ribbon

    Plastic coupes for a champagne tower

    Get the plastic ones. A tower is a photo op, not a serving strategy, and nobody wants to wash real glassware at a rental.

  • A hand-painted “She Found Her Honey” banner above the dining table

    One big hand-painted sign

    Ask the group what they can do. Someone paints, someone bakes. This became the backdrop for half the weekend’s photos.

  • A spritz bar with Aperol, prosecco and sliced citrus under a banner

    A drink bar built around her

    She loves spritzes, so we built a spritz bar. Costs almost nothing and it’s obviously, specifically hers.

  • A sweets table with a candy jar, cake pops and a “Love is Sweet” sign

    A sweets table

    Candy salad, custom cake pops and a sign. The small stuff built around what she actually likes is what she remembers.

  • A bed with white balloons and a BRIDE balloon banner above it

    Balloons for her room

    The first thing she sees when she walks in. Sets the tone for the entire weekend before anyone has said a word.